I’ve always loved a bit
of complimentary therapy. I find a
massage or reflexology session a real treat.
Don’t worry though, I wasn’t about to ditch the conventional cancer
treatment in preference for ‘positively thinking the cancer out of my
body’. I’m not that brave. I know there are some that believe it is the
way forward and have spurned conventional therapy in its favour. I also think that cancer is as much a mental
issue as a physiological issue so it is important that people have choices in
how they are treated. I happen to think
that chemo, although not an appealing prospect, has a proven track record for
blasting the shit out of cancer so I’m happy to go with it.
Fortunately, the NHS is
beginning to embrace the idea that complimentary therapies can be useful in
conjunction with conventional medicine.
They offer massage and reflexology in the cancer day ward at Guys
Hospital where I am being treated. This
is brilliant, although waiting lists seem to be long and I haven’t yet been
able to book a slot.
There is a fantastic
charity in Fulham called ‘The Haven’ (http://www.thehaven.org.uk/)
which has been set up for breast cancer sufferers. It was founded by a woman who was concerned
at the lack of emotional support and information available to those going
through Breast Cancer treatment. The Haven offers breast cancer patients 10
free therapy sessions tailored to each individual, and the range available is
huge. They also run workshops on
nutrition, meditation and moving on after breast cancer amongst a host of other
subjects. There are two more Haven centres in Hereford
and Leeds.
I have visited four times now and it is a very calming place to hang out. I’ve had acupuncture to try to combat the
side effects of chemo, as well as a counselling session where I just got to
talk about what was bothering me. After
my reflexology treatment, I had the best nights sleep I’d had in weeks. All good stuff. You can eat a healthy, home cooked lunch
there for the bargain price of three quid, or just hang out in the lounge area
where there is tea and coffee and a whole library of books about cancer and its
treatment.
I am also fortunate that
my sister in law Emily, has recently studied to become a Sound Healing
Therapist, and has needed a guinea pig to practice on! She uses all sorts of instruments to create
sounds including Tibetan singing bowls, drums, tuning forks and bells. As well as being extremely relaxing, I
can’t help but feel the vibrations these sounds set up in my body must be
doing some good. The idea, I think, is
that they bring the body back into harmony.
Whatever its doing, I love the sensation it gives me and can highly
recommend it.
Emily has also taught me
the Tibetan Medicine Buddha chant......
Bekhanze maha
Bekhanze radza samund gatay
Soha
The translation is:
May all sentient beings suffering sickness
Be relieved of that sickness
May all sickness go away and never come back
Direct and to the point I think you'll agree! So I have been giving
that a go. Surely its worth a shot? The idea is that you should chant it 180
times every day for 40 days! I haven’t
got the discipline or dedication to go that far, but I try to incorporate it
into my yoga routine which I do a couple of times a week.
And on the subject of
yoga, I have found that really useful, especially during the first week after
chemo when energy levels are low. I've done several courses over the years so know enough to be able to do a bit at home. I make it as energetic as I can manage and it gets my body
moving when I’m not feeling up to getting out and about much. I did try going to a yoga class a few weeks
ago during my good week, but the yoga teacher was so nervous about me being
there. I think she thought I was going
to keel over without warning. So
although I felt fine doing the class, there seems to be a perception that chemo
patients are a frail bunch. It was an
interesting lesson for both of us I think.
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